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Love language test
The five love languages, from Gary Chapman’s 1992 book, are five ways people tend to show and feel love: words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, acts of service and physical touch.
Which would mean more to you?
About this test
Each question offers two things someone you love could do. Pick the one that would mean more to you, even if you’d like both. You’ll get all five, ranked.
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What are the five love languages?
Words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service and physical touch, as described by Gary Chapman in The 5 Love Languages.
Is this the official love languages quiz?
No. The official quiz belongs to the book’s publisher. This is a free test of the same five languages, with our own questions.
Do couples need the same love language?
No. Research hasn’t found that matching languages make couples happier. What matters more is noticing what the other person values and responding to it.